RhiannonAlexis
06-17-2010, 01:16 PM
I need a solution! Im so stressed about my hair loss. Its on my mind 24 hours a day. I cant go out without using a serious amount of hairspray... I want a normal, happy life... It seems dramatic but it really cant be normal when my hairline is like this. My last boyfriend laughed when he first saw my hairline... Im now too scared to open myself up to another guy. School was dreadful, i was constantly taunted and even held down at one stage just so someone could pull my fringe back... they dont understand what i go through, especially when they were laughing at me and making jokes.
I dont want to cry about this anymore, why does it have to be so painful.
ForeverBlue
06-17-2010, 04:25 PM
Hello....
I really do feel your pain. My hair loss has consumed my whole life. It's on my mind all day, every day. I can't sleep at night, because all i think about is that i'll be bald soon, and it scares me to death. I've cried every day since it began 2 years ago.
It makes me sad to think that anybody would be that mean to you. People just don't understand what this does to a person. It robs us of who we are, and takes away all our self esteem. I've learned not to let those kind of people get me down. They're just ignorant, and don't understand. I know it's hard to do, but don't give them the satisfaction of hurting you.
It is hard to be normal when this is happening. It's changed my life in every way. I can't stand being around people at all anymore. I never leave my house, and i'm alone all the time. I also fear being judged because of my hair loss. It's sad that we have to feel like this because of something we can't control. Unfortunately, people are judged by the way they look. If you don't look the right way, you don't fit in. I use to be aware of that fact, but now that i've gone through this, it really has hit home. Even though i know it will never change, it causes women to have low self esteem no matter what they look like. Seems like nothing is ever good enough.
I wish i had an answer for you. Going through this myself, i know how awful it is. Just know, that you are still the same person you were before this happened. Hair doesn't define who we are. People still in school are still too immature to realize that. Like i always say....What goes around, comes around.
I hope things get better for you soon. Hang in there <<<Hug>>>