Hello there, I have read through your forums for years now & decided to sign up to finally ask a question. I'm sure someone has asked this before but any help from ladies that are going through the same thing I am are appreciated. I have been wearing hairpieces since I was 18. I was in a very bad car accident & the top of my scalp was cut completely open. They had shaved the area & it never grew back. The hair follicles are dead in that area. I wear a top piece to cover it. I have lots of hair everywhere else. I have completely come to terms with this & am happy with who I am. It's just hair & doesn't define me as a person. I am now back in the dating pool. I have long hair & men love to touch it. I feel that if I have to wear a hairpiece, it better be the best! I know there's not much they can feel but I still am uncomfortable with it in the beginning. I hate to continue saying i just don't like my hair to be touched. I get tons of comments on how beautiful my hair is. At what point do you have the hair talk with men? My last boyfriend & I were completely open about it. I am hoping the next guy will be too. I understand if he is not, he's not worth my time. I'm just wondering if I should tell him early in case he wants to bolt.. Or wait? Any input is greatly appreciated! Thank you!