First and foremost hello to all of you! M'names Vacra and I am losing my hair. At first is didn't really bother me that much but this year so far is really getting to me. I first noticed it when I shaved my head in 2005 when i had to undergo some tough training in the army. I usually had my hair short but I really didn't feel like having to comb and style it in the early mornings and while out in the wilderness. I noticed that the top of my head took longer to grow back. In time it got thicker and I didn't worry about it but about two years ago my crown started thinning again and kept getting thinner. Now I have to do a comb over or else my baldy patch will be all up in peoples faces (lol.) I used to have full thick dark brown hair but now I feel so lackluster about it. I stoped getting my hair done at salons because I'm sick of having to dicuss it with the stylist who asks if I'm a man (jokingly but hey it hurts.) I keep my hair cut short in a fauxhawk style but I still do the comb over. When I work my co-workers give me sympathy when i don't cover up well enough. Someone actually patted my bald spot while saying awwwww. My fiancee call me Michelle Rogain since rogain rhymes (its cruel its cruel) with my last name. I am thiiiis close to just shaving it all off for good and just rocking wigs and going au natural. Needless to say it is depressing me and I am sure we all go thru it until we come to terms with it. I just really wonder if it is permanent or is there anything I can really really do to make it come back or overtime is my spot going to take over my whole head. I'm 23 by the way, not sure if I said it before. It has gotten bigger since I first noticed it. When I wash my hair I find more hair than normal in my hands, when I comb i find more and more in the sink and the bathroom floor. I feel like a distraught lover, I just want it to come back! lol.