I wear a bonded topper, and no one, not even a hair stylist can tell. I just have to tell someone this. Today I was at an event where I work. Our locations are really spread out so I don't see the same people often. OK Let me start at the beginning! There is this coworker who is thinning to the point of balding in a few spots. A year ago this woman saw me and she wanted to know what I was doing to make my hair thicker. I did tell her that I used Toppik and biotin etc. at the time I did not have any real growth, but was covering it with Toppik. She saw me today for the first time in a year and she made her way over to me and wanted to see the progress on my regrowth. I was so floored that I looked down so she could see my "scalp" She just gasped and wanted to know what I had done to grow my hair back. I lied! I could not tell her it was a topper. I am so scared that someone at work may find out that I just told her that I took Spiro. I feel really bad, because I like to help people. We talked for a while and she was very honest about her feelings on her HL. I did say to her that a good wig is always a great choice and that she could consider one and that I would be happy to help her figure that out. I told her about this website so maybe she will log on to get some support and answers. I just can't take the chance that my co worker may find out and I don't know her well enough to give her my confidential secret.