So, I have a topper, but have only kinda been wearing it around the house to try to get used to it. The clips are really painful and I noticed yesterday that it tugged some of my hair out and left a small bald spot I'm wondering if there are any other options with a topper besides bonding if the clips don't work out? Is there a way to wear it securely? It gets quite windy where I live, so it's a bit of a concern for me. My bio hair is very long and I'm covering a huge AA spot on my crown and thinning all over, but I'm just not ready to cut it off for a full wig yet. Any suggestions?